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About oral sex
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Oral Sex Etiquette
Originally Published: December 12, 1997
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Hey There Alice... I tried looking through all of the letters, and even tried searching, but I didn't see anything pertaining to this: I've never had a blow job, but would like one...some day...:) I was wondering, if, when you peak, if it's acceptable to just let yourself cum inside the girl's mouth? Should you warn her? Should you attempt to restrain from it? I realize this question may sound rather juvenile, but who else can I turn to?
Dear Reader, When the big day arrives, you can, and should, turn to your partner. "Where would you like me to cum — in your mouth, or somewhere else?... I'll tell you when I'm about to go,... or I'll bark,... or something." Of course, she may let you know the answer before you even ask the question. Healthy, democratic sex means that the parties involved agree with what's goin' down. It's up to each participant to get and grant permission, whether the sex is oral, vaginal, anal, or whatever. Use your imaginations to create the clearest, smoothest, and hottest ways of communicating this important information. Your question is hardly juvenile — it sounds pretty mature and responsible to Alice. Speaking of responsible, there are lots of oral sex/STD (sexually transmitted disease) Q&As in Alice's Sexual Health archives that you might want to review — if you haven't already done so.
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